Sorry to butt in. Left you a response over there...my take on the bungee effect. Should make you feel a bit better. Regarding the above...no sweat. You're allowed to vent. iamlost is pretty intuitive. Good advice!
Anyway, the above was well put. You're a good man and crying is to be considered therapy. You're ahead of the game. Again, I think if more people took responsibility and worked for change the way you (we all here) do, we just might put a huge f**ing dent in that 50% divorce rate.
Think about it. What do most LBS's do after awhile? They soon get tired, say "F--- you!" and /or go out and get another partner...within months! They often get so hurt that they don't even give the WAS a chance to come back if they want.
As you well know (by my aversion to your beloved quantum physics), I am am NOT a rocket scientist, but it stands to reason why there is such a high D rate in this country. I truly feel that the average LBS simply gives up much too soon. Okay, I'm done. You're doing great, my friend. You're my hero cuz you're getting "frisky" and I'm not!! What's your secret?! Maybe I should stop wearing her clothes?
Flipper Your not butting in, buddy....
I agree with your comment that most will give up without really trying....I would say most without even a whimper.....I have known men who have just let their wives leave....."gone"...."screw her".....I suppose the attitude is if they don't want me, why should I bother?
Still, sometimes I do feel that way, but it never lasts. This has made my love for my wife stronger each day and gives me the will to fight for her. I can honestly say I have felt a physical change...at least on the good days....a higher energy level, a purpose....maybe the prayer or meditation we spoke about.
You spend so much time concentrating on the situation....imagining a solution, and ending.....have to make sure it is a positive outcome that is always in your mind's eye, right?
I bounce those brain waves and subatomic particles off her forehead every time I see her....she has no clue.
call me "T"...lol (for puppy and bill..N-D-S-M-H-L-P, sorry. was not really thinking straight when I made my user name)
