I Don't get it!!!

[rjd5974]

While your on the subject of her going back to her old ways of avoiding sex and all that...are you going back to your old ways? Did you used to push her on the subject? Did this get you anywhere then? Is it getting you anywhere now?

Look, you went how long without sex? And now you get it and you're going banannas here. I'm not saying it's wrong to want it, and that in a M you should expect it, but once again your W is at a different area then you. You've been at this so long and that's why you feel drained. Your W is still dealing with issues that you dealt with long ago.

You're feeling a lot of things now I'm sure. You've been bottling up so many of your frustrations by "acting as if" over the past months that it seems to be finally bursting out now that you've got your W back to a degree. I think this is normal and understandable. However don't let it consume you, and realize it will pass. Just like you did before your W came back, find other means of venting your frustrations.

If you want to leave your M thats your business and your decision, but I think it would be a shame to walk away from something you put so much effort into simply because it's not going exactly the way you'd hope right now, while your still in the early stages of piecing.