I remember one of my friends saying that during her divorce she saw a young woman being fitted at a store for her wedding gown and she wanted to shout, "It's a sham!!! In 20 years he's going to leave you for his secretary!"
LOL! You think that is bad? I want to shout to all couples around me "He's cheating on you!!!"
You are doing great olive. Having your calm opinion heard is a good thing, gives you control. I learned that loudly going off on H makes us both miserable, and H pushes back. Not pretty. But when I am calm, he listens. Keep it up!
