I agree. You have come so far!!!! Well, you know what I mean...

You get cuddling, attention, nearly everything anyone of us here would want to have. Trust me - if I could be with ex-b, I would rather have everything that you have - the emotional stuff - and I'd be okay with sex once a week or every two weeks. We have had sex occasionally, and even if we had sex 5 times a week - I'd gladly trade places for what you have. I want a relationship. I love sex - LOVE it. But that is the icing on the cake. Right now you have the cake.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't talk about it, though - I think you should. Maybe you need to do something differently to get her in the mood, I don't know.