RTL, I didn't mean to sound harsh, but it just seems like w has you on an emotional roller coaster and you need to get off the ride. All you you can do is what you need to move forward with your life. Worrying about what she will do or say and then getting upset about it is pointless. W tells you her back hurts, why would she think someone who raped her would care? It is absurd. It has nothing to do with fault, she owns her actions, you did not force her to do this. Someone on this board said that maybe she needs to face what it will be like when she doesn't have you to talk and cry to, and I so agree.This needs to happen now so W can see what D really means before the final action. You want her to happy and whole for your D as well. Maybe this will help you " go ark". Use your energy to improve your life and make yourself happy. Try to not answer her texts for 24 hours and see what you do instead, you might surprise yourself.
