I am so soory that you find yourself here. I know that the thought of losing the person you entrusted your heart to is unbearably painful. My H just confessed 3 days ago that he was having an A. As surreal as it all seems, I know the best thing I can do is try to focus on me. I realized awhile ago that DBing is NOT about our WS, it is about how we can move on and heal from the pain we have been enduring. As much as I would LOVE for my H to come home and be remorseful about the A, it may never happen and I have to keep going like it will not. If things change between us, then that is a wonderful surprise and I can move on with him knowing that I am a stronger person.
I dont know if this helps or not because I am very new to this as well. I hope the best for you and will be walking this horrible path along with you. Good luck and <hugs>.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
