My husband says he is sure he would have never willingly told me. He says whatever happened, it would have died with him on his death bed. He says he hates the thought that he was not the person I thought he was. I don't know if he would have left me or not if I hadn't broke them up. I do know that if he did, he would have kept her a secret until he got home from Afghanistan. And then act like it was someone he either just met, or act like he met her there, just happened to later get divorced, and thought he would give her a call. This is the story he would have given his mom, aunts, etc. I guess he wouldn't have given it to me because if he divorced me, we definitely wouldn't have a whole lot of reason to talk. One day he might realize that for her to come to the US and get married, she would have had to apply for a Fiance Visa while she was still making googoo eyes at him. And it really isn't that easy to get another type of Visa if your are from that country. There is a good chance she wouldn't have been able to visit unless he was divorced and willing to marry her. I guess he would be making trips down there. Reading all this crap is like I am living someone else's life. My life had never been soap opera like. I had a crush on the same guy from 1st grade to graduation. And I never told a single soul until just now. Hey maybe I can keep my secret.
