If your W has returned, maybe you're on the right thread. I'm not sure either. I was wondering what you have been doing for yourself...GAL, making some positive changes, etc.?
"She’s back home but I just don’t know what to make of it..."
She's back because she wanted to come back. It's good that she is there. Look, if she did not want to be there, she wouldn't be there. Could it be that she DOES want to try but is saving face? Kinda looks that way to me. Actions often speak louder than words.
The important thing is that you take a hard look at yourself and make the necessary changes...maybe do some 180's, etc. Maybe re-read DR. Otherwise, it will be the same ol' same 'ol.
I don't know what your budget is, but you might call Virginia and at least explore a one or two-day intensive with Michele. I've been reading and hearing great things about it. Just a suggestion. I have been using the phone coaching, which is very helpful if you can afford it.
But, for now, go easy and give her lots of space and understanding. It's important not to crowd her, which it sounds like you're doing a good job not to. Don't let that 6 month thing make you crazy. If she really wanted to go, she would have gone. I remember what a wise man (you) told me: Patience, patience, patience.
Me: 46 Second Marriage WAW: 38 First Marriage Separated: Dec. 2007 W Filed for D: Feb. 2008 For more hope, click: http://rejoiceministries.org/
