Wow. So tonight, my W called me. Left me a message to say she had to get a couple things from the house so she was thinking of coming tomorrow to get them if that is OK. She also said we could do something if I wanted.

I went to the gym and then called her back a couple hours later. Didn't get her live so I said "hello (chipper voice) we keep missing each other! Oh well. I'm actually pretty busy over the weekend. Got a lot going on. But whatever. If you get this, you can call me back."

She called me back a couple hours later while I was at volleyball and said "I keep missing you (on the phone). That's fine that you are busy, maybe we can do something during the week. I'll probably come tomorrow afternoon to get my stuff since I still have the garage opener. You don't have to feel like you have to be there if you don't want to be."

So....now what? She wants to get together, but in a way, I feel like she may want to because she thinks I do (since I've acted needy in the past and expressed concerns when she moved out about not seeing her). Do I just tell her about my conversation with the C and say that we should talk about maybe not contacting for a month or so?


Me: 30
W: 27
Married: 9/2007
ILUBNILWU: 1/2008
W moved out 5/24/2008
W suicide 8/25/2009