I Don't get it!!!

[rjd5974]

She probably just needs more time is all. This is all very new to her. You have to remember you've been DBing and working on learning about relationships for a long time now and she has not been participating. You're much further along than her. She has to catch up at her own pace and you have to be patient while she does. For now, the intimacy will have to be at her chosen times. You're probably not in a position to negotiate at this time. Be more patient and start looking for solutions rather than focusing so much on the problems.