I think you should go or try to go. That's the high road. It will never fail you. Offer to HER, not him or anyone else. You won't regret it, because at least you took care of your own sense of what's right and good. If they refuse to let you help, you tried.

You've loved this woman for years (even if you don't always like her). YOU'RE STILL BEAR.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001