You all are so right I need to get back on the horse and start DBing better. My W's LL is quality time and gifts. I try to give her as much time as possible. Today we basically spent the day together running errands and such. We talked and did all that girlie stuff . Im thinking that she is probably not as emotionally close as she need to be either but right now im at a loss as to what more she needs. The other problem is im not getting what I need from her. I dont need sexual touch but I do need more touch than what she is giving me. I need more hugs more loving touches on the shoulder her to actually reach for my hand when we are walking some where instead of me always reaching for hers. Stuff like that. Im not getting and it is hard. This Piecing stuff is a lot harder than the getting to piecing. It is probably because expectations are much higher now. where in the past there werent really any. So I need to come up with a plan of action. Tommorow Im going to wine and dine her and try to make that night the best one we have had in a long time. I also am going to work on some new goals. It will be some what are to come up with some new ones but I should be able to do it.

Lee