I only read your first and last post but I wanted to chime in. It is still early in your DBing and in the process. They are just papers. Divorces take at least six months so use this time to keep on DBing. There are several people here who are in the midst of a D or even already D'ed. I was a WAW and I came back after 9months of being absolutely sure I no longer wanted to be married. Hang in there! Best of luck.
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