He's "done". Period.

[7 Year Itch]

Yes, I think we'll have to talk about it more. I REALLY want the surgery, but I have to admit it's also somewhat a hope that he'd let me wait until fall knowing what's involved. But I know he wants out NOW, so doubt that will happen.

So question. Hope this isn't too personal, but hey this whole BOARD is personal right? What do you do when you are still in the SAME house and your are horney as all get out? I know he'd be STUNNED (being that he thinks I'm some sexless person) to hear that. I've done ALL the initiating the last several weeks, but my 180's (no I didn't do a lot before) are viewed as too little too late. He has always "risen" to the occasion, but then feels guilty, and gets pissy because of the guilt afterwards everytime. YEs, I'm reaching out, but I honestly want him. It's not just some ploy to get him back.

Anyway, we just got the kids to bed, I had a glass of wine with dinner ,and all I want to do is jump him ,but i know that's not exactly part of the LRT. So here I sit on DB instead, hoping you'll all talk some sense into me! LOL

Chris