Can it REALLY change?

[7 Year Itch]

Thanks Bagheera, I certainly think my H would say my enlightenment is too little too late. Wish he had just talked to me about all this.

I'm definitely going to check out that book. Not sure if he'll read it. Maybe if I "accidentally" leave it out. Being as we are about 3 weeks away from him filing and sleeping in different beds, I'm not sure I can find a way for it to fall under his nose, but I will try. He said that is the ONE issue he just doesn't see changing ,and I cannot believe he'd risk our family and future over THIS issue. One that I KNOW and more importantly WANT to change!

Chris