Quoting grislen:
So tonight when we are in bed I wake myself up and im trying to iniate intimacy after a bit I get turned down completely. This frustrastes me so much. I see old patterns trying to come back an im trying to fight them off.


Hey, Lee -- sounds like you're both (you and w) doing "more of the same"? Any thoughts to what you can do differently re. initiating?

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.