Only you know what works for you. I've been waffling about letting go. My therapist said if I'm unsure, the answer is no. The hardest part is thinking of the hole divorce will leave in the hearts of my children.
*hugs*
Gypsy is right on the money with this one. I have talked to may dad quite a few times about D (hes a D atty) and his advice is and has been that it should be the last resort and you have to be ready for it. He said that even the D's that were "friendly" left scars. Its just a really hard thing to go through and until you are sure in your heart that its what you want, then my advice would be the same. If you have a doubt, your not ready.
Hang in there sweetie, you are doing so well. You already have a stalker...lol! I mean you offer tuna and mackerel? A double threat! Keep your chin up. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
