My, Man! Everytime I see your posts, regardless of where they are, they are so good and to the point. This is no exception. She is foul-mouthed and is acting like a spoiled brat. She'd also never allow me to talk to her that way. And yes, Ghandi may have also had time remaining peaceful w/ her.
She contacted me around noon today and told me I "might not be needed" to help her out. She then later sent an accusatory text asking if I'd really re-bombed the house, did the car, washed the bedding, etc., both before and yesterday and today as I told her I had. I unfortunately replied w/ more than Phoenixdeaux's suggested "yes" as I was again pissed and did take the bait a bit.
I didn't antigonize her this time, but I did tell her I had done everything just as I said I had done. I also told her that we are both working on the solution here and maybe one of us just missed one. I know I missed a ton in Tahoe evidently because I had zero clue what exactly I was looking for. She then replies that she "knows were both working on this" but her father wants to quarter me and thinks this is all my fault and I'm doing it to torture D and W.
Ok, is it just me or is the absolutely crazy? I replied w/ "I wish I had that much power and control." To which she said "so you can torture me?"
Now, I did respond and told her that was crazy. Asked her why I'd ever want to torture her and D and then explained that I was referring to how much money I could command if I could control the insect world. She didn't respond and I now wish I had just done what Phoenixdeaux suggested - just said "yes" when she asked if I'd done those tasks.
Oh, well. She's a peach, but she won't be my peach for too much longer. She then said her dad also said she should keep D away from me for 2 weeks. Now that isn't going to fly real well w/ me, my L or the parenting evaluator. However, in the back of my mind, I really hope she tries to do it. I'd like to see it blow up in her face.
Her fantasy world that she's created is Crazy Land, home of the delusional crazies! This place makes up alternate realities and then blames me for everything. W's car didn't start = my fault. She burns her bagel = my fault again. Boss chews her out at work = Yep, you guessed it. All me. Give me a break!
She then said her dad also said she should keep D away from me for 2 weeks. Now that isn't going to fly real well w/ me, my L or the parenting evaluator. However, in the back of my mind, I really hope she tries to do it. I'd like to see it blow up in her face. 