Val,

If it makes you feel any better, I have been divorced for 7 years and I like my nice, quiet life. I spend as much time with my boys as I can. And you want to talk about fizzled dates...oy! When my best buddy came to visit me a couple years ago, he asked me if I was seeing anyone. I said no because I didn't want to give this up holding my arms out. He gave me a knowing nod.

Speaking of psychiatrist, my former SIL is married to one, and he isn't exactly playing with a full deck.

Take care. Enjoy the peace.

IMP