My husband's MLC

[BeingMe]

Make sure there isn't a key logger on your computer, installed by your H.

I don't know if what you did was right, but I sure can understand. You were fighting for your family, and 25 year M. I wonder if I would've done the same, if I had thought of it. I did snoop, which is how I found out about my H's EA, but I did tell him everything.

Not sure what you should do right now, but before blabbing it all out .... just think about it, and what you're going to say, and be prepared to lose the M. I wonder if your H would've kept the secret of the OW, if you hadn't found out.

Anyway, don't beat yourself up too much. You did what you thought you had to do, and it seems to have worked ... for the time being. Now, you just got to figure how to come clean, I guess, or how to let it go, and live with the secret without it eating you up inside. Only you can say, really.

Take care.