X-W just called (I didn't answer). She and kids have arrived at "our" family vacation spot. Wanted to let me know how much the towm has grown how, "We shoulda bought that property years ago."
We tried to buy property there years ago. I wanted it. She wanted it. We had a contract and were trying to buy it long distance but at the same time we were involved in the criminal prosecution of the man who molested our 3 yr old D. When the real estate deal went sour (we got ripped off) we let that go because more important things were going on closer to home.
I think x-W may have selective amnesia. She remembers the big events but not the details.
Why is she saying "we" should have bought that property? There is no more "we" as we are divorced. This reminds me that a couple of times in the past year she has asked if I would be interested in buying property in that area with her. Yes, even as she was divorcing me.
Oh, there was something else that happened today. She told me that OM has taken his cats back to his place at her request. She said it was because of her allergies. She smiled at me as she told me this, like a smile of relief. Why would she tell me such things?
That high-pitched wailing sound you hear in the distance is me screaming.
I have now turned the phone ringer off.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13