On The Rollercoaster Ride!

[addie]

New thread...here's a recap of the last few posts.

In the last few weeks H has talked about the possibility of salvaging the M, told me there is no longer a R with OW, has spent several nights here and has been initiating ML. Although he's "talked" about salvaging the M, he hasn't said he wants to recommit and we haven't really taken steps to actively work on the M. He remains very conflicted and keeps pulling away. I found out through snooping (I know - don't do it) that he's still in contact with OW but most likely no longer in a PA with her. This week I brought up a R talk and told him that we cannot truly consider working on the M if he's contacting OW. I said that we cannot continue to be physically intimate until all contact with her ends.
H is away on a business trip for the last couple of days and gets back tonight. While away he has called me each night and we've spent quite some time on the phone. We've talked mainly about the trip. I've listened, validated, asked questions and sounded very interested.
Although we are still S, H is moving back in here in a week "for financial reasons". He had been asking to do this for a couple of months and I finally agreed to it. I intend to maintain boundaries re s*x.
S and I will be moving back to my hometown before the end of June (as per H's request after the A started). Realistically, I have no idea IF we can even work on the M when we'll be almost 3000 miles apart.
SIGH!!!