Focus on that little girl that is coming and get yourself ready mentally and physically. Sounds like a csection is possible so make sure all your help is lined up etc. I agree with the others if H isn't even calling to check on you I would say blow him off until you go into labor and tell him you are on your way or if they schedule a csection tell him when. No more. He isn't standing up and you have too much on your plate to deal with him now.
Keep me posted!!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!