There is one very important thing that I saw here. Let me quote you.
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he says he still loves me
Just accept that. Get the other negative feelings out of your head. It is very hard not to want to ask, but it does no good. Your emotions can only push him away at this point, so if you want to save your family, it is up to you to keep them in check. I know my emotions did not help and all they did was serve to push my ex away to the point that my C said it seems like you are trying to push her away. Instead of waiting for God to work on him, ask God to work on your patience. It could take a while. But that patience will give you the best chance for success.
