Well here is what I did learn last night. That I can come down to the computer and vent my frustrations that they allow me to then go back to bed and be a loving husband. What last night did was change a pattern in our R. Before I would have just sat there and become very angry. Instead I came to the computer vented how frustrated and angry I was about something that should not have made me that angry. So after I vented I went back upstairs in a different frame of mind. One saying that I would act as if things were good. So I jumped back into bed gave W a BIG hug and just kind of cuddled before I fell into dream land.
So I wake up to some foreplay for me and one thing leads to another and BAM. It is amazing how you change one behavior, or one reaction to something that your SO does or says. That things can turn right around into your favor.
Thanks again everyone for your advice and support. I never relized that Piecing this thing back together was going to be the hard part.
