Hi Lisa!
Reading your brief synopsis, it really really felt to me that his odd mood and detachment is ALL about him and not to do with you..else, he wouldnt contact you! If it was in any way to do with you, he would withdraw? He sounds a bit miserable I suppose, reading between the lines, I think that was what you were inferring? He is acting quite odd if you think about it.. he leaves his lovely W for no good reason for a trashy veg brain and then he sees her, but then continues to see you, and cant bring himself to tell you about it either way, nor to stop seeing you and also, he tells her he wont stop seeing you and when he sees you, he holds hands and snogs you and presumably doesnt tell her what hes up to, but she texts him when hes out with you, but he ignores it and then makes more dates with you and...

PHEW! Try being him for a moment !??? The word flailing springs to mind.

Keep being the greener grass! Oh and Thai Green curry is my favourite too! I LOVE thai food, I'm up for a virtual thai meal!

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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