piecing is a difficult time..we want the r to be back to the way it was, yet we don't want it to be back to the way it was.
I wonder in your sit...who's holding the score card?? you say that w is showing you love in other ways..perhaps in her way??
is it possible for you to focus on those positives in a way to subside your resentments?
I have struggled with the same issue..my h has been home for about six months now...I am still hesitant to initiate physicalness and have been turned down a few times since his return..
it's not an easy road to walk...but if you keep the right attitude and look for the positives things can brighten up.
take a look at my current thread "I have to let h go" and see how I'm trying to deal with it.
