He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[Starshyne]

This is just my opinion. I questioned and questioned for awhile if my H was going through a MLC or not. He has dyed his black and grey hair blonde, joined a gym and lost 60 pounds, is wearing younger clothes (he never wore jeans before), goes to the tanning booth several times a week, is having an affair with a woman 11 years younger than him, and at one point told me that he wasn't getting older as the days go by but he is getting younger. Huh?!?!

However, after questioning it and questioning it in my mind I have decided that putting the MLC label on it or not isn't going to change anything. It isn't going to make me feel better. It isn't going to make my old H return. This could go on for years, and I can't handle it.

So search for the answers, but maybe in time you will realize that it doesn't really matter....

Just my thoughts. I am SOOOOOO SORRY you are dealing with this. I know how hard the pain feels and how difficult it can be to get up and get going each day. We are here for you.

Sara