I don't know abt the C - there is a balance to strike betw helping us to be real and supporting our reconciliation goals. If it didn't click w/ her, it wldn't hurt to try someone else. At the very least, a C can help you focus on how you process what is happening in your life and how you heal - that has to happen anyway before anything meaningful in terms of R. . . .

What are your goals?

Do you have some "good for you" plans for the weekend?

me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now