For some people it could be that it makes them feel special.If he leaves his family for me then I must be worth something.Not realising that what is really happening is that they are a bridge out of a relationship that the man no longer wants to work on.
Some are not strong enough to do the work or leave without someone to go with.It's a weakness in them.
Later Friends Briget
Briget,
Those are pretty much my thoughts as well.... They are lacking in character and strength...... I just cannot believe anyone would want someone like that....
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret