Needy - don't think so from my perspective. Pursuing - most here are likely going to say yes, but at times do we not have to go with what we think we need to do? Trying to keep the connection - according to the db principles we need to detach, but sometimes is the detachment maybe the problem that got us here in the first place?
Not sure I helped, but I can empathize with your questionning.
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.