I think this may be a 180 I should try... texting. I really, really despise texting - but when I think it through it's not really logical. It's because texting reminds me of when H's whole behavior changes started, and it's how he mostly communicated with OW. Sooo.. might be time to suck it up and try to let that go, and see if little texts during the day get a good response. Clearly it's a way he likes communicating now so might be worth a try.
Lurker here. I DESPISE texting too. It was main communication for H and OW too. Before she came along I bet he hadn't sent 2 texts in his whole life. I have jumped on the bandwagon and have actually liked receiving texts throughout the day from H.
It is nice because I don't always have the time or am not in a good place to make or take a personal phone call at work.....but I can always send a little text or recieve one. I have found myself looking forward to them. Maybe you should try it.