Germ04: The more I think about it, the more I still don't understand why people get to the point where they feel like their back is against the wall and they are caged and have to get out or "it will get them." What is that it?
Exactly she feels caged, I'm going to scream if I don't get out of here. She feels like she is going in circles, clean up one mess and then there is another, never gets ahead.
I was thinking about this today, becasue of her A. Is she just using this as a excuse because she wants out to be with the OM, I mean the kids will be is school fulltime, so they won't be with her all day, I know there is still housework, but I also help out with that stuff, is it that she feels caged or becasue of OM
Thinking a combination of both = MLC - I told her before, I can understand feeling trapped and wanting to get out, normal feeling with everything she has on her plate, but I cannot understand or accept the OM.
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! Moving Van coming Saturday May 31st