That comment from your H really has me bothered. I'm not sure why since he's your H but it does smack of a ridiculous amount of arrogance. He's PO'd at you but wants to see if there is anything between you? He thinks he's totally in control of your sitch. I guess the idea that you have a say in what happens in your own life is pretty foreign to him.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that read it that way!
