Who knows. But we're grabbing pizza at a little place near downtown where he lives. I've honestly been paying for more than half of stuff the last year since my financial situation is a LOT better. However, he has also bought drinks and even dinner a few times. He does have his chivalrous side.
We shall see.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Michelle......hang fishing weights on the bottom of your shirt....that will keep it from levitating!
That comment from your H really has me bothered. I'm not sure why since he's your H but it does smack of a ridiculous amount of arrogance. He's PO'd at you but wants to see if there is anything between you? He thinks he's totally in control of your sitch. I guess the idea that you have a say in what happens in your own life is pretty foreign to him.
Keep up your good work Michelle. You are a fantastic woman with a lot to give but you have to expect to receive as well. It doesn't sound like H is ready to do that yet.
(((((Michelle)))))))))
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
That comment from your H really has me bothered. I'm not sure why since he's your H but it does smack of a ridiculous amount of arrogance. He's PO'd at you but wants to see if there is anything between you? He thinks he's totally in control of your sitch. I guess the idea that you have a say in what happens in your own life is pretty foreign to him.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that read it that way!
No, I got that from it too. Thing is, he was annoyed at the way both our lives revolved around law school. He felt like I was the one making all the decisions from where to live to the budget we lived on. That irked him for basically 2 1/2 years.
So a lot of this has been about him gaining back control of his life. The teenage rebellion thing I've seen floating around fits him pretty well.
Also - usually...when he gets arrogant like that, it's to cover up his insecurities. I think he's worried again that I might move on. He seems to get nervous when I don't talk to him lol.
Just my take though, I'll get a better feel for it when I see him obviously. Hard to get vibes over IM lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I thought that too. I remember my H being very arrogant and almost stuck up at one point during this. I am still not sure what that was about.
I am curious to see how he is going to justify being pissed at you if it is because of the article. I am thinking one of two things: 1. She gave him an earful for discussing their R with you (how's that for irony?) or 2. ...he never really bothered to break up with her like he told you and she was pissed that you thought that they were broken up.
Either way I think it is because you put a little kink in his fantasy world.
Probably that's what he's pissed about, but you kind of expected that, right? Yes, take his invitation. Have a great time. There are definitely feelings on his side or he wouldn't be wondering.
I disagree with everyone else about the self-levitating shirts. If he's wondering "if there's anything between us", blowing his mind might be a good idea. Just IMO...
I'm sure you'll make your own choice on that, just like you did with that crazy IM to OW
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
And taping my shirt down! 
) or 2. ...he never really bothered to break up with her like he told you and she was pissed that you thought that they were broken up. 
And tonight!