[Sad to say, I guess it's time to let the L do the talking.
I think I will go through that too. You know I've read in several books that mediation works out only usually if you have 2 somewhat agreeable people, and I don't think your W qualifies! So if that happens, I think you just have to try to let it roll off your back somewhat, you know something inevitable like death, taxes, and your W going the most expensive legal path!
I think you should let the L do the talking, and try not even discussing legal stuff with your W any more, and if she brings it up then tell her "the L's will handle that" or something like that I mean, my H and I have had some of those discussions too, and do they ever really solve anything? Not with us anyway, and it doesn't sound like in your case. And I've read here, blame the L's for everything, too, if something unpleasant is going to happen or whatever legally, blame your L! They get paid for that I think and they can handle it!!! I've been trying to do that, too, those legal type discussions are some of our worst disagreements, solve nothing (my C says when we do that we are "pi**ing in the wind"! And in my case, H is a lawyer too, so I am really a dummy when I do that--although he hasn't been acting very smart lately either I don't think!!! Karen
I've been trying to do that, too, those legal type discussions are some of our worst disagreements, solve nothing (my C says when we do that we are "pi**ing in the wind"! 
