Thank you I already told her early on that I was in for the long run. Im not going to give up unless she files the paper work and I have to sign them. My kids and my marriage means alot to me, not to mention her. I will keep doing the DBing and pray for the best. me and my daughter pray every night before she goes to bed, and that makes me feel awhole lot better than before. So like I said her birthday is next friday, I will get her something from the kids and a card that we all signed. Will keep you updated as I will be looking for advice Thank You all and God Bless