Impressive 1hope!!! You are a quick learner of the DB practices and look at the little baby steps he made (a big hug, joining you in the hot-tub etc). You combined some 180s and GAL and didn't talk about the R. I think the only thing I might have considered would be to respond to him thinking about stuff on his mid with something like "do you want to tell me what is on your mind" But what you did was probably a 180 and was just as effective. Remember if he does talk it is best to mainly listen at this stage.
Sounds like you got yourself set up for a nice night....enjoy yourself! Maybe he just might join you. If he doesn't I can bet he will have wished that he did in the morning.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
