Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
I know alcohol is a depressant and an escape mechanism, but I've given up chewing my nails, so I gotta have my occasional night to booze it up! ;\)


Nothing wrong with that!

Your H's IM's sound like he realizes he's not adjusting well, and he's pissed off about it. Especially:

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(8:59:22 PM) H: war shows us what we are, and it doesn't fit in with polite society these days


It obviously sucks to still be in college at 25, because he went off and served his country first. So now he's off from the rest of the world. His "fatass Americans" comment later shows this as well. So to make up for it, he decided to go have an affair with a college student. Great idea.

IMO he has plenty of reasons to be pissed off, but is making all the wrong choices. Tough sitch. I'm proud of you for fighting, keep it up.

Oh, and my W thinks that Sarah Jessica Parker is way too old, and not nearly attractive enough, to star in a show or movie called "Sex in the City". I don't care enough to have an opinion \:\) Have a great girls night!

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK