I don't know, I am afraid I would have to confess about my hand in the break up, and I can't ever do that. It seems so conniving. But then so does emailing your girlfriend while you are married.

We are talking about important things now, he seems to be making plans that involve our future. That was something he had quit doing. I would bring something up to do one day, and he would just sort of go hmmmmm. Not yeah, nea, or talk about it , just hmmmmm.