I hate to get caught in the drama of it all. Ick. WE have taken ownership for what we have done. It does not happen over night. It is a learning process. One that I never want to take for granted. It will help us in all of our future R's. Be it with a BF or just our friends.
If the X is looking for someone, that can not be away from him, if he is looking for someone that can not give him his space, and let him grow on his own. Then he has found his "soulmate".
She goes into a bad place in her head, when the X is not around. She has told me herself. He can't even have time with his kids on his own. It is sad really.
I rather have my mind work for me than against me. If I am coming to negative thoughts in my head when my partner is not around. It will just cause me not to be strong emotionally, and maybe that is a red flag.
I want a balance. I will need you sometimes, I also just want to have faith, that we can be ourselves seperately and know that does not mean that our R is being negative. Honesty, and give and take. My goals.
You are strong Suzy. He may not know how to handle that.
Keep your face towards the sun lovey. As I know you do.
Sex in the City Girls. Ofcourse you have to take a great bag. And FAB heels, and as Mrs H will do.. Go and have a Cosmo afterwards. Priceless.
OMG Cat, that class is EXACTLY what I love. Thanks I am going to look it up in my area.
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