wow! talk about resourceful! you are something else hon. I think I would've done the same. Well, it is over now and they'll never see each other since she is elsewhere. The distance between you two was a factor, but not all of it, he has other issues that need to be brought up. You two need MC pronto. I have a coworker who's H has been away for 2 deployments, and he's always come back to her lovingly. For him to have a gf there shows a lack of something, you two need to work hard in reconnecting each other and nurture your M or, heaven forbid, he might seek escape in someone else.
Consider Retrouville or other M related program, don't let this just be.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
