H worked all day and into the night on an off duty job, so didn't even walk in the door until 10pm. Should have been easy to avoid him, no? No, I screw it up by talking about health insurance issues, and how I'm now nervous an elective surgery I had planned to have will now be considered a prexisting condition when I have to switch insurances. I am off his insurance the day the divorce is final. He wants to file in like 3 weeks, so just doing the math, that is not going to last into Fall, which is when I had planned to have the surgery for optimal scheduling reasons. I brought it up as it's one thing that hadn't been brought up yet, but I had been talking about for awhile. WHY did I do that?? I'm an idiot.
Chris,
I don't think you screwed up really bad by talking to him about this. To me, this is one of those things that's considered the business of life...but that's just me. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Have fun at your picnic today!
Me=31 H=36 D=4 H dropped bomb and moved out=4/17/08, living with his mother 50 minutes away from home and work.
