Again, it's amazing how much our husbands are alike. I wish that was a compliment.
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I will pay maximum child support, $1875/month (like he has a choice? Oh, give me a f***ing break!)
LOL, I got the same thing from my idiot. He tells me "I told my L that I want to give you the max on child suport) Dumbasses don't realize that it's not a choice.
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I will leave the $1 million life insurance policy in place with the children as equal beneficiaries and if something should happen to me the money would be directed by a trustee until they reach the age of 25.
I advise you to check on this. In NY it's standard that an insurance policy is put into place to protect the children. However, it's not an inheritance that they receive at a certain age. He should be taking out a policy that IF he dies, then you will get money starting right away to cover child support. It's supposed to be in place of child support payments. My dummy tried to get away with that too. He didn't want to take out this policy he wanted to wait until the boys reached a certain age. My L said to him "Why do you care so much? You would be dead anyway. Is this your way of trying to control things beyond the grave too?"
I am glad you wrote the letter. BUT DO NOT give it to him. Consider it a therapy for you, to vent.
