Real life...part 3

[Starshyne]

Don't worry about the hi-jacking. I seem to do that to Jeff's posts a lot.

I haven't heard from H in days. I am actually happy about that. The more I don't talk to him, the more I am ready to go ahead with the divorce and move on. It is when he talks to me that I get all confused. I am still staying over at my house until 10pm and then sleeping at my mom and dad's. It is a pain because at times I can see that my H has not slept at the house. I hate that because that meant that I could have slept in my own bed and be happier with my things around me instead of with my parents.

I hope to talk to H this weekend at some point. I will give him the one more chance and have several things in mind that he would have to do in order to make things work. My gut says that we won't even get to the point where I will outline those things, but here they are.

1. End ALL contact with the OW. Never see her or talk to her again.

2. Change his cell phone number and I will change mine. He will delete all of his information from his phone and start from scratch.

3. Get full STD testing

4. He will need to go to IC. I would like MC down the road, but right now he has a lot of issues that need to be dealt with and he needs to get into IC.

5. Doing things that make me be able to begin trusting him. Tell me everywhere he is going, etc.

I gotta go!

Sara