I also am very proud of you.......and every time you feel like getting sucked back in just think that he would probably do this again to you in the future if you don't take a firm hard stand now. If you do still want him as your H then better to let him go for a while and live with OW and her 4 kids and see just how that isn't so good. Let him learn a good hard lesson....and then.....if YOU want him back......you will be in a stronger position to consider it. I think it will be such a shock to him to not be able to sweet talk you back into what he wants you to do.
Make him dance to YOUR tune.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
