Jeff, as I see the day coming closer, I can feel your pain, man. It's so easy for me to tell myself, "I wish she would just leave, figure it out, and leave me and the kids alone", I am scared to death that she is going to do it.
But remember, her moving out does not mean it is over. It is never over. Even if D happens. Just this year, I had the priviledge to help a new coworker that was going through D. He was the WAS. His W did not want to D, but she bluffed him and he called her on it. Papers were signed and filed by her. After many talks, he ended up reconciling with W and they even started attending my church! I played a part in that.
I have seen it happen. WW knows it. God knows it.
You will continue the fight, bro.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."