Thanks NMD. I did a lot of self-flagellation before I opened my eyes and realized that while I definitely made mistakes, I was willing to admit them and try to fix them. He looked for the answers to his problems with someone else. But he has the answers he needs, but he will never look for them in himself. He thinks it is someone else's job to make him happy, and he decided she was going to be better at it than me. Good luck to both of them. I don't think that is the answer.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
