I'm not sure that this is not working just because of the vacation deal.

And if you mean it's not working because there hasn't been significant movement toward an improved relationship, maybe you need a bit more time.

And then again, maybe a mixture of the two approaches is called for.

Be the outstanding father. Don't let the kids become a "technique." But maybe slow down on the availability for other help.

Just grasping at straws here Sleeper.

Sorry if it's not much help.

My impression is that this vacation thing is tainting your bigger picture view. And I understand the hurt.



Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."