I asked because I wondered if maybe it was time to shake things up a bit.
Would a legal separation be something to consider?
Benefits would be a legal settling of the financials, perhaps some legal requirements for help with the kids (either financial, physical, or both). Moreover it may send the message that you are preparing to move on.
Sometimes upsetting the apple cart can provoke movement.
You just have to be prepared for what that movement could be.
Just a thought.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
